Betrayal, Divorce Recovery, Appreciating life
Vikki Stark
Does How It Ended Negate the Marriage that Went ...

If your husband leaving can contribute to you struggling to become a more positive person, to strengthen your appreciation of your life just as it is, so you can love life, no matter what is happening, then you can chalk it up to experience.

Does How It Ended Negate the Marriage that Went Before?

Self-blame

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Don't Blame Yourself if You Didn't See it Coming

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Don't Blame Yourself if You Didn't See it Coming

When something happens that doesn’t fit the pattern, we don’t let it penetrate. That new odd piece of information just skitters off our brains and we reject it. It takes time for us to be able to let it in, particularly when doing so threatens our sense of security . . .